02 Jul 2008
by amruta
in Blogroll, Just a thought!, My writing stints(or stunts)!!, Notes to readers, Trudging down the memory lane
For a long time, I have been at a loss of ideas for new blog posts… and more than ideas, it’s the expression that I am not able form.
So i thought, why not try my hand at fiction? Stories and topics that have interested me, but never happened to me…. I guess I should give it a try!!
And ofcourse, may be I shall be able to express myself in a better way, ‘coz what is fiction but a reflection of the reality??
29 Mar 2007
by amruta
in My writing stints(or stunts)!!, Trudging down the memory lane
Confused with the title?? Think it should be “The journey of a thousand miles, starts with a single step.”?
Well that holds true if you intend to travel only a thousand miles, if your journey is going to continue beyond that,(well in life, it does, right!! Much beyond that!), in fact to a million miles,then, only when you take thousand steps do u gain sufficient momentum to finish this loooong journey!!
Just like this blog…I started it quite some time back…but it doesn’t seem to have gained much popularity…..but today finally… my blog stats showed 1000 hits!! (Too bad i didn’t take a snapshot when it was 1000!!
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A biiiig Thanks to everyone who visited this blog, and made me believe that I could go about well on this journey of million miles……Will try to write more and better, from now on!!
01 Nov 2006
by amruta
in Blogroll, Man is a social animal!, My writing stints(or stunts)!!
There’s this organization in Pune called ”Eklavya Nyas” , that supports the children of Commercial Sex Workers. Recently, my employer company asked for volunteers to go to this school and interact with the children. I jumped at this opportunity! We were divided into batches which would rotationally go there every weekend, and spend time with the kids as ice-breaking sessions. Once we were all comfortable with each other, we would start with proper teaching sessions!! It was an overwhelming experience!! As a first session, we decided to play with them and speak to them about Traffic rules, Personal Hygiene, and India in general, with the help of skits. Since we were the 1st batch to go, we also had to share our experiences there with the batches who would go on future weekends. I am just copying a part of a mail that i wrote to the group……. ”Alright, as far as yesterday’s experience goes, there’s loads and loads of stuff to write.For starters, I would like to say that these few hours that we spent gave us peace of mind, and disturbance of mind, in equal proportions.Peace, because its a wonderful and soothing feeling to be amidst these children; and disturbing, because behind those smiling faces is hidden a truth so bitter, that makes us feel very very fortunate as compared to them…..and the difference hurts!Ok, so after a fair amount of brainstorming on Saturday, we met at the DagduShet Halwai temple on Sunday, practised our skits, our dialogs, went through our “Do’s and Don’ts”, and there we were at the place where the kids gathered to read and play! Indranee(if that’s the way it is spelt) was there and so were a couple of kids. We sat down and started speaking to them. sticking to our formula of “likes-n-dislikes: yes, personal-n-family questions: no”. Slowly, lots of other kids started flocking in, and believe me, if one did not know their background, they would all be thought of as normal kids.We started asking their names, their favorite movies, games, actors.
We played antakshari with the kids, and the younger lot seemed to enjoy it a lot. But there were older kids too, and they looked a little bored..
Hmm, then it was time for the long-planned skits…..but no…the children outrightly refused to do any sort of skit. They were pretty much interested in mimicry n stuff like that, but when we tried coaxing them to do skits on topics, they wouldn’t budge.
So, the change of strategy…. we simply had to get all of them talking as to how much they know and understand about traffic rules, personal hygiene, and India.
Much to our surprise, they knew most of the things. Traffic Lights and Zebra Crossing, Washing hands and having bath, dressing wound, brushing teeth, they knew it all…that they didn’t really practise all that is another thing.
They knew our National Anthem very well, and the Pledge too(which i’m sure most of us volunteers did not….). They also knew the 3 colors of our flag, the Ashok Chakra, etc. And they had a quest to learn, beacuse when we mentioned Ashok Chakra to them, they started asking us questions about the Ashok Stambh, the sarnath stupa, the “structure with 4 lions” that u find on currency notes, etc.
I mean all-in-all, they were a bright lot. They were extremely interested in listening to stories. so we had story telling sessions with them. We played Games too, and they knew all those games before.
One thing that many of them did not know was reading the time. so each of us collected a few kids and taught them how to read the watch.
There were quite a few talented kids, and well informed ones too. for eg. we were pretty surprised when a boy called Ramzan told us that Italy won the FIFA world cup, and there was a head-butting controversy during the match.
Vaibhav is very good at painting, Sooraj at making crafts(he had made this very cute caged lion), and most of the other kids seemed genuinely interested in learning something creative, BUT not in form of lectures or the typical “study” ways. that was pretty obvious by the fact they they rejected our idea of skits forthright.
ok..now to the darker side, cause the above description shows only 1 side of the picture. there was this girl Pooja, who asked me atleast 4 times whether they were going to get “dabba”. there was this girl who was called as “Don” by her friends beacause she was quite violent at times(reason for her violent nature being her abusive father ), there was this guy Ramzaan who generally kept to himself and didn’t get involved with others, simply because if there was a fight, he couldn’t control himself. Well this list could go on and on and on, but I don’t know whether this is the right platform to list everything.
Neha came up with a very good idea that we can have some kind of a collaboration with the Andha Vidyalaya, wherein the older children from Eklavya Nyasa could write the exam papers of younger kids. This would have 3 benefits: 1) the kids will get to interact with the outside world, 2) the ones who will write the papers will feel that they too can be of some use to others and may be 3) they will realise that there are other underprivileged people in this world.
Another thing I would really like to appreciate is the way the guys gelled with the kids. I have always observed that boys generally don’t take to young kids, girls are anytime better…but i must say that all 4 of these guys completely washed away my belief. The children really flocked towards all of them, and they too handled them absolutely comfortably.
well there’s a lot more to say….but already i’ve written such a loooong mail that i think half the intended recipients are not going to read it fully
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so more about this, when we actually meet…..
but as a bottomline, this was definitely a very enriching experience, and it would be a pleasure and an honour to have more of such kind.”
01 Nov 2006
by amruta
in Blogroll, My writing stints(or stunts)!!
1) I am proud to be a woman because: its only a woman who can both rock the cradle and rule the world.
2)If there was one thing that I could change in today’s world, it would be : discrimination against any caste, creed, religion, community, gender, etc., because once we rise above such divisions, and start thinking about humanity in general, it’ll be much easier for us to change everything that should be changed.
3) Define Beauty: Beauty is a feeling of well being, not just from outside, but more importantly from within. Beauty is more about “Conscience” than about “Complexion”.
4) If I could exchange my beauty for something else, that would be: respect for women, because once women start feeling respected by others, and more importantly, from within, I believe they can achieve whatever they want to achieve.
5) Today’s indian woman is: very much capable of reaching the skies, however, for several reasons, is still trying to find her feet on the ground.